Your card is a pair of swords, Aries.
They believed it would be best to say nothing at all at the moment, Aries. Whether or not that was their purpose, it’s possible that the harm was already done and that speaking would just fuel the flames. They were thinking about the result at the moment in terms of two extremes. On the one hand, everything would be fully repaired with the correct words. On the other hand, saying anything more would destroy the remaining foundation that you two had established. However, if they were allowed to express their current thoughts, they might claim that there was never any winning with you. Peace was the greatest option. For both of you. Hopefully, you can both find that on your own now that they’re gone.
Your card, Taurus: The Star
They truly tried to tell you, Taurus, “If it was meant to be, then it’ll be,” but maybe you weren’t prepared to hear them. Your lives have gone apart as time has gone by. The struggle to remain relevant in each other’s life is over. If you two were meant to be together, it would come naturally because you are both surrounded by fresh groups of individuals who lead diverse lives. That is their belief. There are no wrong individuals at the wrong time. The individuals are simply incorrect. The timing would have been ideal if it had been the right people. You’ve found your solution if you never see them again. However, there is a part of them that continues to believe that the time will come.
Gemini, the Three of Swords is your card.
They wouldn’t have it any other way, Gemini, even if loving you was the hardest thing they have ever done. In many respects, loving you helped them just as much as it wounded them, and you may agree. They wish they had done a lot differently, but they have learned from the experience and are trying to go on as best they can. When you both needed it most, they wished they had chosen thankfulness and patience. Sadly, there is no turning back. They never said what they meant to say, and they never meant what they said. And while they feel as though they no longer matter to you, they wish they could say that you did matter to them at this moment.
The Ten of Wands is your card, Cancer.
They wish they could have expressed their gratitude for the way you handled them, and they are aware that there were many. With such consideration, tolerance, and comprehension. Cancer, they never truly expressed gratitude the way you deserved. They did notice how hard you tried, even though it might seem like they didn’t. You are one of the most lovely and compassionate people you will ever meet. They thought it was more than they deserved, but you have a heart as big as the ocean. Even if they regret pushing you away, they understand that this is the better course of action. They can feel the burden you placed on their shoulders now that you are no longer there. However, this is their burden, not yours.
Leo, the Nine of Cups is your card.
They regret not informing you that it’s acceptable for people to simply grow apart from one another. We don’t have to despise one another because of it. Until the moment comes to let go and be on our own again, sometimes loves are destined to come and leave, teaching us the lessons the universe felt we were ready to learn. We are all destined to have certain experiences, but they are never meant to endure forever. It’s better this way, even though at the time you two felt boundless and endless. It just gets to be too much when two people are burning brightly. Now that they are happier, they want you to know it. Not despite your absence, but because your time together helped them discover more about themselves. Even though it ended badly, the memories of your shared past and the good times will always be preserved.
Your card is the Queen of Pentacles, Virgo.
They wish they hadn’t brought out the worst in you, Virgo, but they wanted to see the best in you. They knew they occasionally asked too much of you, and they wanted it to be you. Since they ultimately felt that they stoked animosity between the two of you they detested, they regret they hadn’t attempted to shape you into someone you weren’t. They wish they could have expressed to you how happy they are that you entered their lives at the time you did. They’re still not entirely sure why you two met, but perhaps they will eventually, but for now they’re just glad they can claim to have known you. Virgo, you’re a hard shell to break. It’s difficult for you to let others in. Only a small number of individuals truly know you, even if you usually know a lot of them. And they are appreciative that you allowed them to be among those you opened up to. They know how difficult that might be for you.
Your card is the five of pentacles, Libra.
They wish they could tell you how much they miss you, but they wanted to pretend that losing you didn’t matter. They wish they never took it for granted because they miss you more than they missed you, even if it could be too late for that. Even though they wanted to act as though being by themselves didn’t frighten them, the truth was that it did. They attempted to hide a deep fear of being abandoned by pretending that independence came naturally to them. They were both frightened and greatly comforted by the fact that you saw through that. Now that you’re gone, though, it’s their fault.
The Ace of Swords is your card, Scorpio.
They gained a lot of knowledge from you. You provided them with a kind of education that is not possible to learn in a classroom. You were never credited for that. Despite your pessimistic outlook, you manage to turn the disadvantages into benefits. Do you find life and death fascinating? Do you need to rise above the ordinary? They will always remember it, no matter what it was about you. It is something that still has your thoughts, beliefs, and justifications. They thought you were impressive and that you weren’t given enough credit for this aspect of your personality. They wish they could go back and tell you that your ideas aren’t ridiculous or too far-fetched because they were also guilty of this. They now understand how uncommon you are. That is what best characterizes Scorpios. You are not an exception to the rule that every Scorpio is incredibly different and special.
Your Card: Ace of Cups, Sagittarius
You were profound. You were recovering. You had empathy. You were recovering. For those things, they never gave you enough credit. For you, Sagittarius, emotions, and self-expression are natural, but not for them. Your capacity to freely express your emotions to the world without fear always amazes them. For them, it was always preferable to keep your feelings to yourself. That way, it was safer. That it was a show of fortitude to keep things inside. However, you demonstrated the contrary to them. that emotions have strength. And even though you might occasionally feel embarrassed by your emotional outbursts, they never expressed their admiration for this quality of you. They thought you were the bravest person they had ever encountered.
Your card is the High Priestess, Capricorn.
In a sense, they feel that you already knew how they felt and what they meant, even though they regret not being more explicit. They felt as though you could read their minds just by looking into their eyes. They never expressed to you how special they thought your bond was. It was not the same. They wished they could have told you more, but there was a certain intensity and closeness that was beyond words. They regret trying to hide how they feel. When you ask them what their day was really about, they wish they would tell you. Instead of expecting you to solve their problems, they wish they would just tell you when they’re feeling down. They wish they were more honest, but you already knew. Even if you already knew how much they cared for you, they still wish they could express it to you.
Your card is the Ace of Pentacles, Aquarius.
Their desire to be the one for you was never expressed to you. Perhaps they had a vision of a future with you, and that if they had put more effort into their current lives, that future might have come to pass. Nevertheless, even though this is the future they realize you never want it. They refused to listen, even though you told them a million times. You gave them hope, but they never told you. Hope in general, not just in the two of you.
The Devil is your card, Pisces.
They realized it wasn’t fair to you, Pisces, and you were treated almost like a narcotic. Every time they made a frantic attempt to reach for you, they were frightened because they could sense the times you emotionally distanced yourself from them. However, until they thought they could no longer reach you, this cycle merely served to drive you farther and deeper into your abyss. They never disclosed to you how addictive everything was to them. that they loved everything about you just as much as they detested this aspect of you. However, there may have been moments when it seemed more like they were interested in this notion of you than they were in you. Now that they know it’s untrue, they wish they could tell you. It’s possible that this part of the dynamic caused stress for you both and gave the impression that they wanted to own you, even though that wasn’t their goal. They genuinely wanted to make things better but were unable to do so; they never intended to make things worse.