No matter how toxic things get, we can’t break unhealthy relationship habits that we all have. Astrology serves as a mirror to help us identify our relationship patterns and learn how to break them to discover enduring love. Find out which relationship habit you need to break by looking at your sun sign below. If it doesn’t speak to you, look at your birth chart’s moon and Venus signs. These positions are associated with romance and feelings. Here are some things your zodiac sign must give up to find and maintain love.
Give up trying to find the next great thing, Aries:
Because Aries is such a fast-paced, competitive sign, you’re constantly searching for the next big thing and how to obtain it. Regretfully, this also applies to relationships; even if you’re a part of a happy couple, you can’t help but question whether things would be better elsewhere. Although this does not imply that you should accept a poor relationship, you should avoid ruining a good relationship by thinking that there is always something “better” out there.
Don’t settle for what feels good, Taurus:
Gentle Taurus, you’re happiest in a committed relationship and you love being in love. Additionally, you enjoy curling up and maintaining your comfy pattern. Unfortunately, because you would want to maintain your status quo rather than make changes, you can settle for companions or relationships that aren’t healthy for you. You should reconsider if you’re with the correct person when the relationship starts to go south and, if not, move on rather than stay in your comfort zone.
Stop Trying On Personalities, Gemini:
You can connect with practically anyone since you’re so gregarious and endearing. It’s challenging to find someone who can fulfill all of your desires because you have so many hobbies and facets of your personality that you want to explore. You must be really honest with yourself about your desires and identity in order to locate “the one.” Make a list of the values, lifestyle, and other things you value most in a spouse and for yourself. The appropriate companion will find you organically if you first concentrate on discovering who you really are rather than trying to be who everyone else wants you to be.
Don’t Express Your Feelings to Your Spouse, Cancer:
Sweet Cancer, this does not imply that you should not express your feelings. It goes without saying that you should communicate your feelings to your loved one. However, you need to learn to keep your feelings apart from your partner’s; you should no longer actually share your feelings with them. Because of your high level of empathy, you frequently feel accountable for the feelings of others, particularly your partner. You hold people accountable for your emotions because you want them to reciprocate your empathy. You are two different persons, even though you are a pair, and neither of you should be totally reliant on the other to feel good.
Stop Always Prioritizing Yourself, Leo:
Dear Leo, just because certain zodiac signs may have trouble losing themselves in a romance doesn’t imply you should do the same. If anything, you have a tendency to prioritize yourself excessively in relationships. Since no one can dispute your extreme generosity and attentiveness in love, this may be difficult to hear. However, you also frequently put your own wants and feelings ahead of your partner’s. Before you take any more action, find out what they truly need and want, and watch how your relationship grows.
Give up attempting to “fix” your spouse, Virgo:
Virgo: As a cautious Virgo, you are aware of your high expectations and that you should never settle for a mate. However, you occasionally date people who don’t fit all of your requirements because you believe you can “fix” them. However, the reality is that you should start with a partner you don’t feel pressured to change. Allow yourself to be enamored with the individual rather than their potential. Additionally, rather than attempting to cure them, let them leave early if you have a gut feeling that they are not a good fit from the start.
Stop Trying to Avoid Being Alone, Libra:
Adorable Libra, you’re not the only zodiac sign who finds it difficult to get into a relationship for a variety of reasons. You enjoy being in a relationship so much that you frequently switch between significant relationships. However, if you’re constantly with someone, you never get to know yourself since you tend to adopt their hobbies, desires, and personality traits. To discover who you really are and what you want out of life, you need some alone time. If you’re reading this and already in a committed relationship, consider planning a date night or get-together with pals without your significant other. Everyone knows you’re constantly wanting to do better, Libra, and a little alone time can help you grow personally.
Stop confusing intimacy with love, Scorpio:
You might be the sexiest sign of the zodiac, smoldering Scorpio, since you are the sign that governs the genitalia! You also yearn for a profound degree of closeness with your spouse; you want to know everything about them and for them to spend time getting to know you. However, there are instances when you fail to use your brain and confuse physical closeness with emotional bonding. Additionally, you could rush your relationship’s physical component in the hopes that it would create the stronger bond you desire. You will find “the one” you deserve after you learn to tell the difference between lust and love and how to interpret that difference in others.
Stop Fleeing, Sagittarius:
Free-spirited Sagittarius, you enjoy traveling with a companion, but it’s not the most important thing to you. You detest being constrained, and you refuse to allow anyone dampen your spirits. You have a tendency to flee when things become serious in your relationship or when you encounter obstacles. However, a healthy connection will expand your life rather than make it seem constrained. Give yourself permission to commit to a person and struggle through difficult times with them. The payoff for resisting the temptation to run away at the first hint of adversity will be more than you could have ever dreamed.
Stop Ignoring Your Risks, Capricorn:
Cautious Capricorn, you are so protective of your emotions that most people never see your tender side. On the inside, though, you are incredibly kind, caring, and loving. Simply put, people are dying to see what’s beyond your somber, stern exterior because you hardly ever show vulnerability with them. You might suffer some heartbreak if you take chances, open up to others, and express how you’re feeling. However, your heart is stronger than you realize, and you will never find the proper person to hold it tenderly for eternity if you don’t risk breaking it.
Stop Ignoring Commitment, Aquarius:
You don’t feel the need to “define” your relationships in traditional ways, quirky Aquarius, and you detest labels. You’re a born innovator who wants to forge your own romantic route and despises customs. But in reality, you’re just avoiding commitment because you’re reluctant to categorize your relationship with your spouse. Even without the name, you’re still in a relationship if you’re in one in every meaning of the word. It’s acceptable to commit to someone and establish your connection, as you and your partner see fit.
Stop romanticizing everyone, Pisces:
Sweet Pisces, you have an endless imagination and you love being in love. Regretfully, this implies that you have a propensity to romanticize people as your ideal companion even if you don’t really know them. Your heart breaks when you eventually find out who the person really is and the delusion is destroyed. You must quit imagining that everyone is your ideal mate before you have even learned anything about them. You should love people for who they are, not for what you think they should be.
