Being alone is a choice. But sometimes this choice is not easy at all. 

Discover the harsh truth about why you are alone, based on your zodiac sign.

Aries(March 21 – April 20)

Aries native is a combination of romance and independence, but sometimes a good thing can turn out to be a bad thing.

The reason you are alone is that you refuse to give up control when the relationship is ready to move to a new level. Maybe it’s time to reconsider that strong sense of independence and give up that wall built around you a little bit. Intimacy sometimes means letting someone else see your vulnerable parts. Just because you allow someone to help you doesn’t mean you’re helpless. The hard part is that you can’t let anyone in without being afraid of getting lost.

Taurus(April 21 – May 21)

You have a lot to offer your right partner. You are known for stability, ambition, positive energy, and an immortal romantic side. But letting someone you love betray your trust means a broken heart that will hide beneath a stubborn exterior.

It’s time to dump her and move on. Stability sometimes requires little risk. If you want to give up loneliness, you need to know that the only person who stops you from being happy is you.

Gemini(May 22 – June 21)

When you get involved in a relationship, you get involved in body and soul, but you just can’t decide if that’s what you want. And the situation is getting pretty confusing.

You hate being alone, but as soon as things get boring, you’re ready to give up. For now, you’re alone because that’s what you chose. When you find someone who shares your passion for work, play, and love, you may decide it’s time to settle down.

Cancer(June 22 – July 21)

Intuition and instinct are your superpowers. You are the friend that people can trust. You love your mom even if it’s not everything you wanted it to be. Your sensitive nature, love of privacy, and empathy are attractive traits for those around you.

But the hard truth is that deep down, you are very cynical when it comes to love. You’ve been hurt in the past and you don’t know if you can pass up your pessimism about love and relationships. The truth is that you can if you are willing to give up the past.

Leo(July 22 – August 22)

You are a kind, generous and loyal leader. You like to be the center of attention. The only problem is that you can’t always be in the spotlight, and that can be a love affair.

The pretty obvious lesson here? Calm down and realize that a relationship is not a one-man show. A partnership means more than your own person, so make sure that the spotlight you want is placed on the people you are interested in and love.

Virgo(August 23 – September 22)

You are the owner of the details, sometimes a little strange, but when it comes to analyzing a situation, no one is better than you.

However, the truth is that you are quite brutal when it comes to others and you work continuously, without knowing what play and fun mean. You may be alone because of the high standards. So, if you want to be able to have a real relationship, you will have to get off the highest horse and start riding at the level of everyone else.

Libra(September 23 – October 22)

You are fair, relaxed, and fun. You like to socialize with friends, either at home or in the city at a party. And also the truth is that no one fights against injustice as you do.

But if a person you like turns out to be insensitive or rude, the relationship ends before it even begins. You’re brutally honest about how you feel, which is a great thing but try to stop listening without going on the defensive.

Scorpio(October 23 – November 21)

Scorpio loves you until … until what? It’s hard for a person to reveal your negative side, but the quickest way to do that is to betray your trust. Not everyone can be as loyal and faithful as you, which is why you are still alone.

Although you should never tolerate dishonesty, forgiveness is not a bad thing to do. Try it once or twice and you may realize it’s okay. After all, we are all human beings.

Sagittarius(November 22 – December 21)

You love to love unless your relationship begins to be restrictive or suffocating. The truth is that spending too much time with your partner is too brutal for you since you like independence.

You love your freedom and would rather be alone if the relationship in which you are involved deprives you of it. But if you really want to sit in your house, you will have to step out of your comfort zone and give up independence for the other person from time to time.

Capricorn(December 22 – January 19)

You have a bad reputation because you are an old-fashioned person, but the truth is that you like stability. There is nothing wrong with being practical, the trick is to figure out how to balance routine and romance.

You can’t be so rigid all the time, so try to keep up with the times and take into account what others want. You may find something you don’t expect from someone. But you can only if you give it a real chance.

Aquarius(January 20 – February 18)

You are the kind of person who helps anyone in need. You are a problem solver. But when it comes to finding out why you are still alone, especially when you are taught not to be alone, it is a difficult truth to face.

You are often misunderstood and categorized as insensitive when it comes to deep feelings. Your challenge is to find a way to put into words what your actions don’t convey the way you want them to.

Pisces(February 19 – March 20)

You keep your time, but you are also the first person to offer a shoulder on which those who have been injured can cry. From the outside, it may seem like you don’t have time for a relationship or you’re looking for romance.

If you are tired of being alone, you may have to overcome your fear of being yourself, that is, sincere and vulnerable. It’s okay to be like that, and believe it or not, there are people you can count on. You can’t always be strong, so let your guard down from time to time and you may connect with someone who can pick you up when you fall.