The ability to keep quiet is very important in any relationship, especially when a small disagreement can turn into a major problem. 

Conflicts often get worse when you don’t care to stop in time!

Aries(March 21 – April 20)

Aries-born people are very busy and know that a long discussion is not helpful in resolving a conflict.

The longer it takes, the hotter the discussion. Thus, feelings can be triggered and misunderstandings will be inevitable. Aries prefers to schedule a discussion and set a time limit for it. The optimal duration is half an hour. If more is needed, Aries is open to prolonging it a little longer.

Taurus(April 21 – May 21)

An angry Taurus is not someone you want to talk to.

So, in order to avoid aggravating the situation, he will need a moment to calm down before having a conversation. If he still feels extremely nervous, he will leave the discussion for another time. Moving away to manage your feelings can help prevent aggressive reactions.

Gemini(May 22 – June 21)

Conflict resolution of any kind, but especially in relationships, is the superpower of Gemini.

They are good at communication, so maintaining peace as a couple is something I know how to do instinctively. The first thing Gemini will do is say what they think honestly, but without malice. They don’t want to cause any pain, they just want to know how they feel and where they come from.

Cancer(June 22 – July 21)

Cancers do not want to cause unnecessary suffering to a loved one.

So, try to address the issues as they arise. Cancers do not want to internalize their feelings and have negative feelings that grind them on the inside, so they try not to hold a grudge, store resentment or take refuge in anger or disappointment. Cancers want to have an open dialogue, not block any means of communication.

Leo(July 22 – August 22)

Leo is very good at communication.

What he does to maintain peace in a relationship is to take full responsibility for his actions, needs, behavior, and words. Try to use the pronoun “I” as often as possible, so that when he shares his thoughts and feelings, the loved one does not feel attacked. Leo is able to create a secure environment for resolving conflicts.

Virgo(August 23 – September 22)

Virgos know a lot about problem-solving, so they are very logical and practical when it comes to resolving conflicts in their relationships.

The pragmatic side of Virgo knows that instead of asking her loved one to change, she better suggest that she express her ideas and show her contribution to finding solutions. Acting together is an effective way to get through any challenge in the relationship. Virgos will not give up on a relationship when it becomes difficult but will find ways to fix it.

Libra(September 23 – October 22)

Libra hates conflict, but when it does, I know it’s better to resolve it than to avoid it.

Libra likes things to be fair and balanced, so she always tries to give equal time to her loved ones so that she has the opportunity to discuss her own concerns, worries, and solutions. Because Libra is open to other people’s perspectives, they are usually open to what their partner says and will consider any suggestions.

Scorpio(October 23 – November 21)

Scorpios can sometimes act guided by pain or anger, but because this sign is very clever, they know how to refrain before saying too big words or taking extreme measures.

Scorpios will try to figure out what makes them suffer before confronting their partner. They will look for solutions that benefit both parties. Scorpios will also try not to judge, insult, be repulsive, ironic, or turn a blind eye when trying to resolve a conflict.

Sagittarius(November 22 – December 21)

The couple’s conflicts make Sagittarius feel very uncomfortable.

So his first instinct is not to get involved. However, if his relationship means anything to him, he knows that it is crucial to find a way to peaceful negotiation. Sagittarians have an open mind, so when trying to resolve a conflict with a loved one, they will encourage them to be honest. They will listen to her carefully to understand her better and to see things from her point of view.

Capricorn(December 22 – January 19)

When trying to resolve a conflict with a loved one, Capricorn knows that he should not place more importance on that situation than on his relationship.

His intention will be to resolve a dispute to the satisfaction of both parties, not just his own. He is not interested in winning an argument if that means destroying the relationship. Capricorns tend to plan how they approach their partner, suggest ways to solve the problem, and solve it at some point.

Aquarius(January 20 – February 18)

Aquarius is able to stay rational and not lose his head when trying to resolve a conflict with his / her partner.

They do not expect their loved ones to read their thoughts, so they are very clear about what they are thinking and feeling. I do not bring opinions from other people in the discussion, nor do I use comparisons to try to persuade my partner to look at things from their perspective. Above all, Aquarius tries not to accuse his partner or put him in the corner.

Pisces(February 19 – March 20)

When Pisces try to resolve a relationship conflict, they make sure that the person next to them knows that they are loved.

Pisces try to convey to their partner how much they appreciate him/her and how grateful they are that they exist in their life. If they have to apologize for their behavior, Pisces will do so and recognize when they are wrong. The most important thing is that they will not have such discussions if one of them is tired or in the bedroom, which is a sanctuary for Pisces.